Mike's Langauge of Love Breakdown
LOCATION
OSAKA, Japan
QUOTE
"don't have to be concerned about race, religion and the socio-economic standard of others — so you can just send your e-mail and make friends instantly."
"They don't know how to work through their fear, and unless there is some kind of catalyst, they just feel like they are locked in a cage. It is very hard for people to get together like that."
"The Japanese are very shy, except when they are very young, and Japanese men are afraid of chatting up women because they are afraid of being turned down,"
ANCEDOTE
As they eye each other discreetly across the glass divide, which conveniently includes two transparent strips, the person who has identified someone to his liking (usually, but not always, a man selecting a woman) writes a brief "love note" on a sheet of paper. The note is handed to a waiter, who carries it around the divide to the other party.
A man named Takashi said he frequented the club because it was difficult to meet people in his daily life and at least here you can see the face and know that reality matches the world.
sur·rep·ti·tious
Pronunciation: "s&r-&p-'ti-sh&s, "s&-r&p-, s&-"rep-
Function: adjective
1 : done, made, or acquired by stealth : CLANDESTINE
2 : acting or doing something clandestinely : STEALTHY
pro·to·col
Pronunciation: 'prO-t&-"kol, -"kOl, -"käl, -k&l
Function: noun
1 : an original draft, minute, or record of a document or transaction
2 a : a preliminary memorandum often formulated and signed by diplomatic negotiators as a basis for a final convention or treaty b : the records or minutes of a diplomatic conference or congress that show officially the agreements arrived at by the negotiators
3 a : a code prescribing strict adherence to correct etiquette and precedence (as in diplomatic exchange and in the military services) b : a set of conventions governing the treatment and especially the formatting of data in an electronic communications system c : CONVENTION 3a,b
4 : a detailed plan of a scientific or medical experiment, treatment, or procedure
opaque
Pronunciation: O-'pAk
Function: adjective
1 : exhibiting opacity : blocking the passage of radiant energy and especially light
2 a : hard to understand or explain b : OBTUSE, THICKHEADED
Main Entry: feu·dal
Pronunciation: 'fyü-d&l
Function: adjective
1 : of, relating to, or having the characteristics of a medieval fee
2 : of, relating to, or suggestive of feudalism
en·dem·ic
Pronunciation: en-'de-mik, in-
Function: adjective
1 a : belonging or native to a particular people or country b : characteristic of or prevalent in a particular field, area, or environment 2 : restricted or peculiar to a locality or region
mod·el
Pronunciation: 'mä-d&l
Function: noun
1 obsolete : a set of plans for a building
2 dialect British
3 : structural design
4 : a usually miniature representation of something; also : a pattern of something to be made
5 : an example for imitation or emulation
6 : a person or thing that serves as a pattern for an artist; especially : one who poses for an artist
7 : ARCHETYPE
8 : an organism whose appearance a mimic imitates
9 : one who is employed to display clothes or other merchandise
10 a : a type or design of clothing b : a type or design of product (as a car)
11 : a description or analogy used to help visualize something (as an atom) that cannot be directly observed
12 : a system of postulates, data, and inferences presented as a mathematical description of an entity or state of affairs; also : a computer simulation based on such a system
13 : VERSION 3
14 : ANIMAL MODEL
synonyms MODEL, EXAMPLE, PATTERN, EXEMPLAR, IDEAL mean someone or something set before one for guidance or imitation. MODEL applies to something taken or proposed as worthy of imitation EXAMPLE applies to a person to be imitated or in some contexts on no account to be imitated but to be regarded as a warning. PATTERN suggests a clear and detailed archetype or prototype EXEMPLAR suggests either a faultless example to be emulated or a perfect typification. IDEAL implies the best possible exemplification either in reality or in conception.
COURTSHIP: a man's courting of a woman; seeking the affections of a woman
STORY LINE
In Japan, most people are too shy to even make eye-contact with other people in public. These dating clubs are a convenient way for singles to meet without the fear of face-to-face rejection.
BEYOND THE ARTICLE**
www.itsjustlunch.com -» It's Just Lunch
www.eharmony.com -» eHarmony
www.espinthebottle.com -» eSpin The Bottle
Marchele DeCoste
*Gina Deutsch
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